Whether Guys Notice Knee High Boots Or Just Say They Do

For years I told anyone who’d listen that “do guys like knee high boots” was a fake question, invented by shopping blogs trying to sell boots, because men are basically…

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Why Every Therapist Ive Ever Had Owns The Same Cardigan

People get weirdly heated about the therapist cardigan. I’ve seen it argued about in a group chat for forty five minutes, real venom, someone’s aunt is apparently a therapist and…

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Whether Leather Jackets Work On Men Or Just Look Like Trying Too Hard

My upstairs neighbor Dave owns a leather jacket he bought in 2019 and has worn approximately four times because he’s convinced it makes him look like he’s compensating for something.…

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Brown Shoes With Grey Trousers Got Questioned By A Colleague At Lunch

“That’s a bold choice for a Tuesday,” she said, looking at my feet like I’d shown up in cleats. I was wearing dark brown derbies with charcoal grey trousers, a…

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Brown Cardigans For Rich Days

I used to associate brown cardigans with giving up. The colour itself seemed needy; it begged to be overlooked. Then I had a horrible Monday (9am court, 11am school assembly,…

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Brown Knit For Rich Days

Something about the September light streaming through Pike Place Market last week fell perfectly on my caramel-hued merino pullover, newly thrifted from the weekend before. I looked at myself in…

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Fall Sweater Dresses For Autumn Days

It clicked for me one grim October morning. I was late. I was standing in front of my closet doing that thing where you try to plan outfits in your…

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