A Floral Dress As A Wedding Guest Comes Down To The Print More Than The Florals

My cousin texted me a photo of a dress three days before her friend’s wedding with the caption “is this too much” and it was a floral dress, sure, but…

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A Lace Dress For A Wedding Guest Comes Down To The Lace Itself, Not The Dress

My friend Renata texted me a photo of a dress three weeks before her cousin’s wedding with the message “is this too much lace” and I stared at it for…

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A Backless Dress As A Wedding Guest Might Come Down To The Venue More Than The Dress

Had a client last fall text me a photo from a dressing room, spine to waistband, asking “is this too much for a Tuesday wedding.” Not too much for a…

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A Black Floral Dress To A Wedding Made Someone Ask If Black Was Appropriate

My sister in law sent me a photo of a dress at eleven at night with the caption “is this a NO” and three question marks, and the dress in…

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A Sequin Dress As A Wedding Guest Felt Like Too Much, I Wasnt Sure Either

My brother texted me a photo of the dress three separate times before the wedding, no caption, just the photo again, like maybe I hadn’t understood it the first two…

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Nobody Mentioned I Might Need A Slip Under My Wedding Dress

My mom’s friend, a woman who got married in 1986 and has never once let anyone forget it, told me at a bridal shower that “back in our day nobody…

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The Best Green Linen Dresses For A Garden Party

“Smart but sunny.” That was the actual line on the invitation my cousin sent for her backyard engagement thing in June, and I texted it to my sister like it…

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The Perfect Green Puff Sleeve Dress For A Summer Wedding

I built the case for this dress the way I’d build a case for anything, cost per wear against the number of summer weddings actually on the calendar, which this…

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The Perfect Gold Wrap Dress For A Garden Party

I said gold wrap dresses were a garden party cliché for two full summers before I bought one, and I was wrong, quietly wrong, the kind of wrong where you…

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The Perfect Green Midi Dress For A Summer Wedding

I have a green midi dress from a wedding in 2011 that I still keep because it taught me something, and what it taught me is that a dress can…

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